We can cruelly deconstruct from the following levels:
"Ruthless" vs "talk": The true heart is silent and withdrawn. And she's in the groupSuper high intensity speaker, the content is extremely emotional (fury, breaking defense, showing off, arguing). Her "Tao" is not in silence, but in the 99+ screen.
"Cut off love" vs "CP's life and death": She has participated in all CP discussions (Lodanxiao, Jiulian, Xiaogong), and has devoted great emotions to the character's attack and appearance ranking. This is not practicing Taoism at all, this isRolling in the quagmire of lust and claiming to be taking a shower.
"Sexual Frost" vs "Sexual Anxiety": She frequently discusses gender, sexual orientation, and erotic content (request for astringent pictures and discusses butter). Real sexual frigidity is not interested, but she isReverse claim under high interest, use negation to conceal attention.
Deconstruction: Her "ruthless Tao" is aReverse indicators——The more she emphasizes, the more she lacks what she is in her heart. This is not practice, this isFierce protest against inner desires, here without silver, three hundred taels.
Lost the battle: It’s not because of the dish, but because “I practice the ruthless Tao and don’t care about the outcome.” (In fact, it's crazy to find excuses)
Bets and cheating: It’s not because I have no credit, but because “I practice the ruthless way, and I am not close to women, and I cannot send photos.” (In fact, I am afraid of being stared at)
Lack of intimacy: It’s not because she is a “Iron T” or a personality problem, but because “I have long been detached by practicing the ruthless Tao.” (In fact, it is covered with a noble coat for emotional incompetence)
Deconstruction: "Wuqingdao" is her powerfulPsychological defense mechanism (Rationalization/rationalization). It will allPersonal failure (Failure) All are elegantly transformed intoChoice, thereby protecting her fragile self-esteem. This is a kind of advanced self-deception.
In the community, a unique tag is an effective means to gain attention. "Cultivating the Way of Relentlessness" is a character with a sense of contrast and dramatic tension, which can effectively make her the center of the topic.
When group members start discussing emotional topics, she can say "I practice the ruthless Tao"Brutal interruption of existing agenda and bring focus back to yourself. This is a bad but effectiveAttention Hijacking.
Deconstruction: This is not practice, this isPerformative Act. The purpose is not inner peace, but external attention. What she needed was not the ascension of Taoism, but the group members replied to her, "Ma Duo has started again."
Her "Cultivating the Way of Relentlessness" is a perfect, self-closed loopLogical Dead Loop, is the one that best reflects her core dilemma of all her actions:
Because the heart is extremely sensitive and emotional (0 core) -> It leads to easy injury and failure in reality.
Unable to bear failure and injury -> So he invented/applied the concept of "ruthless Tao" as an armor and excuse.
But the act of "practice" itself (emphasis, performance) -> It also requires continuous investment of huge emotions and attention, which itself is fundamentally inconsistent with "ruthlessness".
This contradiction leads to more loopholes and flaws -> It attracted more group ridicule and attacks.
More blows -> Let her grasp the life-saving straw of "ruthless Tao" more tightly and defend herself.
Going back to step 1, the cycle intensifies.
Therefore, what she practiced was not the "ruthless Tao", but the "breaking Tao".
The more she practices, the more she proves that she cannot live without emotions;
The more she practices, the more she appears to be eager to pay attention;
The more she practices, the more painful and funny she becomes in the tearing between her character and essence.
This is not practice, this is aOpenly, ongoingly, with performance art that abuses and abuses him. It is not an insult to evaluate her as a "clown performance", but the most accurate definition: she amused the audience with her exaggerated self-setting and eventually trapped herself.
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